PEOPLE - Private lives

I don't know how to explain these marks to any of the women I have dated and have always struggled with forming intimate relationships. What should I do?I'm a 27-year-old male virgin, with a history of self-harm. I started harming myself during a difficult childhood and have since resolved those issues, but have always struggled to develop any form of intimate relationship. My concerns about being inexperienced in bed are worsened by the fact my ...

http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2013/sep/27/self-harm-scars-sc